It is all too easy to focus on things you cannot control when it comes to money: the stock market, a looming recession, trade policy, the value of the dollar, inflation, the rate of return of your 401k account, how your neighbors spend and whether you need to keep up with their Christmas decor… the list can go on and on, resulting in depression and ennui. Wait a minute though. Personal finance is not something that happens to you, it is inherently something that you control. What happens in the world outside your wallet does not need to weigh heavily on you. Sure, it can impact the value of your 401k, but not your habits and actions. No one can control the markets, but we all can take control of our own personal market and money.